The ceramic bowl sits in the same spot where it always has.
Empty now, but somehow still full of memories.
Every pet owner knows this moment will come, yet we’re never truly prepared for the silence that follows the absence of paws on hardwood floors.
Navigating the Belongings Dilemma
The decision of what to do with their belongings becomes a tender navigation between honoring their memory and managing our grief.
Some friends suggest putting everything away immediately, believing it will help with healing.
Others advocate for keeping everything exactly as it was, as if waiting for their return.
But perhaps the answer lies somewhere in between, in the sacred spaces we create to honor the love we shared.
Creating Sacred Spaces of Memory
Their favorite toy might find a new home on a bookshelf, watching over the room they once filled with joy.
The collar could hang by the door, a gentle reminder of all those excited greetings.
And yes, sometimes the food bowl stays exactly where it always was, not as a shrine to sadness, but as a testament to the routine love that defined your days together.
Grief Has Its Own Timeline
Grief doesn’t follow a timeline, and neither should the process of deciding what stays and what goes.
Some mornings you might find comfort in seeing their bed in the corner.
Other days, you might need to tuck it away until your heart feels ready.
There’s No Wrong Way to Remember
The beautiful truth about pet loss is that there’s no wrong way to remember them.
Their pawprints aren’t just on our floors and furniture—they’re permanently etched on our hearts.
The unconditional love they gave us doesn’t disappear when they do.
It transforms into something we carry forward, influencing how we love others and how we move through the world.
Your Feelings Are Valid
Your grief is valid, whether it’s been days, months, or years.
The tears that come unexpectedly when you hear a familiar jingle or see their favorite spot in the yard are not signs of weakness—they’re evidence of a bond that death cannot break.
Give Yourself Permission to Choose
Take your time deciding about their belongings.
Keep what brings comfort, store what feels too painful right now, and know that your choices can change as you heal.
Some bowls are meant to be put away.
Others become permanent fixtures in homes where love lived, reminding us daily that we were lucky enough to be chosen by such an extraordinary soul.
The measure of grief is the measure of love, and by that standard, you loved immeasurably well.
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